If you believe you are someone who has the ability to succeed and achieve the contentedness, the energy level, the body, the life you want, will you?
If you believe you are someone who will never achieve it, will you?
You tell me. Are you the type of person who:
These are not only important questions I ask before I accept a new member into our concierge wellness program, they are also questions I encourage you to ask yourself. Do you believe you will succeed – or not? It all stems from there.
Nothing is Impossible, the word itself says ‘I’m possible’! – Audrey Hepburn
Much of the work on what we now call a growth mindset, and a core principle in my concierge wellness program, stems from the work of Stanford professor Carol Dweck, Ph.D. Dweck found that the beliefs we have about ourselves hugely influence success. How we view our personality, specifically, she found would lead you to success or the alternative (I don’t use that word. It goes with my growth mindset. Read on!)
By studying her, I was able to overcome a lifetime of “work harder,” “I’ll prove it to them,” and worse yet, “I’ll never have what they have” (body, happiness, lifestyle, you-name-it). By listening to my host of mentors in the mindset field, and weeks/months/years of personal reflection, I was able to turn my old self filled with fear and lack of confidence into who I am today: content, loving my life, making choices that are best for me.
Along with other coaches and mentors, Dweck’s work led me to fine-tune my purpose and my real anchor in my life. I now live my life with intent. I know what my purpose is, and I live my days aligning with it. I see from 1,000 miles away when something doesn’t align with my purpose, and I deflect it. You see, once I cultivated a sense of purpose in my life, I began to spend my days according to my own “compass.” It is also why I decided to close the doors to my first “baby” Fitness on the Run and found this amazing company, Alexandria Wellness, a foundation for my purpose.
For twenty years, my research has shown that the view you adopt for yourself profoundly affects the way you lead your life. It can determine whether you become the person you want to be and whether you accomplish the things you value. How does this happen? How can a simple belief have the power to transform your psychology and, as a result, your life? – Carol Dweck
Living with intent gives me and will give you the ability to make choices that align with who you are – what is deeply important to you and eliminate a ton of indecision and question. Living with purpose not only leads to better decision-making, it also frees you up from unnecessary stress. You know who you are and what you want. It also helps when the unanticipated plops on your schedule. You can more easily say “no.” Stay tuned for my Calendar Mastery Program coming this fall!
Keep the big picture in mind, and not so fixed that you can’t change your course when a better opportunity arises.
We all know someone, or perhaps it is you who is “set” in their ways. They do things “this” way and no other way. Well, this also applies to how we view ourselves, and importantly our wellness goals. When you know what you want and will do what it takes to achieve it, you will build your days/weeks/months/years around it. The sky is the limit.
I can give you five hundred examples, yet I’ll make this simple:
A fixed mindset believes our ability is static and cannot change. “It’s my way” is her default. A growth mindset embraces getting out of your comfort zone, trying new things, and making small yet meaningful change. This is the road to contentedness.
“A growth mindset is a belief that you can grow and improve” – Carol Dweck
Stay tuned for part two next week, which will reveal the next important step to achieving a growth mindset and the life and wellness you want!
Alexandria Wellness offers achievable answers for anyone who is tired of chasing fitness and health without a clear plan, someone who has struggled and is not satisfied with their fitness and wellness or someone who is open to maximized healthful longevity and fitness along with healthful weight loss. Adrien and her team offer help with food guidance, body acceptance, sleep and stress issues, and insist you have fun along the way.
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Alexandria, VA 22314