Dancing Away from Social Media + Back to Social Graces

Dancing Away from Social Media + Back to Social Graces

Do you ever feel like good manners are becoming a lost art? Or that common courtesy is on the decline as people hide behind their screens and indulge their addiction to social media? We see it with adults and overwhelmingly with younger generations, who are growing up reliant on mobile devices. Basic etiquette, like making eye contact, giving a firm handshake, and properly introducing oneself – important people-skills that will help children build strong personal and business skills – seem to be a thing of the past.

Dancing Away from Social Media + Back to Social GracesThe Virginia Cotillion sponsors Gillian Rice Maupin, Anna Alberson, and, me, Maura Burchette.

We are hoping to help change that at The Virginia Cotillion! More than 25 years ago, The Virginia Cotillion was created by beloved founders Amy Alberson, Lynn Hooff, and Perry Guy to offer ballroom and contemporary dance instruction, as well as instruction on manners and etiquette for middle school children. The goal then, and the goal now, has been to help students develop the confidence and skills needed for good behavior in any social situation.

Dancing Away from Social Media + Back to Social Graces

In our classes, we’ve seen firsthand how dancing can help children improve social skills, conquer shyness, and become more confident…even in this digital age, where being connected to social media is often easier than being connected to those around us. Cotillion is a great way to meet new friends and learn dances and etiquette that will be used throughout a lifetime.

Dancing Away from Social Media + Back to Social GracesGillian (far left), Anna (third from left), and me (second from right) at the 1996 Snowball.

This year, we are especially excited for some changes to the classic program as Cotillion graduates (class of 1996!) and St. Mary’s alumnae Anna Alberson, Gillian Rice Maupin, and me are the new owners. We have been working to update and modernize this classic program and make it even more fun. As you can see from our Snowball picture, we loved being a part of The Virginia Cotillion back then and we couldn’t be more excited to run the program now.

Dancing Away from Social Media + Back to Social Graces

We meet on Sunday afternoons at Belle Haven Country Club and over the course of six classes, our dance instructor teaches students the fundamentals of dance, including traditional favorites such as the swing, waltz, fox trot, pretzel, salsa, cha-cha, and shag, as well as popular line and current dances. We open and close the season with Formal Nights, and also have Western, Halloween, and Valentine’s Day themes. The final class is the Snowball, where parents get to attend and dance with their children. Etiquette is taught at every session.

We hope you will break out the white gloves, dress up in party dresses and blazers (which can be found at 529 Kids Consign!) and join us for the 2017/2018 season, which begins on September 24. All students in 4th-7th grade are welcome and if you enter the code SB after your child’s name on the registration page, your family will be entered to win a free dinner at Belle Haven Country Club following the Snowball.

To register your child or learn more about our program, visit our website at www.thevirginiacotillion.com.


Top and bottom images: photo credit, Sarah Marcella Creative | outfits, The Hive.


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Born and raised in Alexandria and married to a native Alexandrian as well! We love living in Old Town – just a few blocks from the store – with our three little boys and golden retriever Rumpelstiltzkin. Although my first job and real love was retail (the Lilly Pad where Mint Condition is now), I worked in Public Affairs and PR prior to buying the shop, which has really been a dream come true for me. I feel so grateful to work with our customers to find the perfect outfit for their special childhood moments. When I’m not at the store you can probably find me at an Old Town park chasing the boys or on my yoga mat.

A classic children’s boutique in Old Town, Alexandria for 40 years, we carry special occasion and play clothes for sizes newborn to 12. Located in the historic Crilley Warehouse just two blocks from the water, Monday’s Child is your go-to shop for baby gifts, baptism gowns, holiday dresses and outfits, boy’s blazers and ties, First Communion, shoes, books, toys and much more.


Monday’s Child
218 North Lee Street
Alexandria, VA 22314


Monday-Friday 10am – 6pm
Saturday 10am – 5pm
Sunday 12pm  – 5pm

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