My Big Fat Greek Girls Trip

Three years ago, a friend in Alexandria and her husband moved to Athens, Greece for a three-year job rotation. Almost immediately, another friend and I declared that we'd be visiting before they came home.

Three years sounds like plenty of time to plan a trip. In reality, life has a way of filling every available space with work deadlines, family commitments, home projects, and all the other things competing for our attention—and our budgets. But this June, after years of talking about it, researching it, and saving for it, we're finally on our way.

One thing I've learned over the years is that meaningful experiences rarely happen by accident. They usually require the same things as any other financial goal: a plan, a budget, and a little patience. This trip wasn't a spur-of-the-moment splurge. It was something we intentionally saved for and built toward over time, which makes finally taking it feel even sweeter.

Flights:

I opened a new United Plus Mileage credit card in order to bank some hefty miles that could be used for flight upgrades on an international flight. Extra legroom comes with a pretty price tag on those long-haul flights, so this was a great way to use the miles. Travel rewards aren't worth spending money you wouldn't otherwise spend, but when used strategically they can help stretch a travel budget considerably.

Tip: I had to do a temporary “thaw” to my credit in order to open the new credit card. Follow my guide for freezing your credit and navigating temporary thaws for these situations.

Hotels: Budget-friendly or Luxury-stay?

As we've gotten older, we've become less interested in squeezing every dollar out of a vacation and more interested in spending intentionally on the things that matter most. For us, that meant paying a little more for walkability, proximity to the water, and reliable air conditioning in June.

Tip: Getting on the same page about costs, my travel buddy and I sat down to sketch out a budget with realistic flight and hotel costs. Next, we set up a savings plan – I even have a dedicated savings account for travel – to reach our budget goal. She used her bonuses, I used a regular paycheck deposit plan. There's something satisfying about watching a travel fund grow. Every automatic transfer becomes a small vote for your future self, and over time those little deposits turn an aspirational trip into a plane ticket and a hotel reservation.

Experiences: Investing in your trip intentionally

Y’all know that I’m big on investing in the experiences. Years from now, I probably won't remember exactly what our hotel room looked like. I will remember learning to navigate Athens by e-bike, searching for the best baklava, wandering a farmers market before cooking dinner, and lingering over fresh seafood at an open-air taverna with a good friend.

Tip: We use the app Splitwise to track our shared expenses like the tours we pre-booked. This app makes it easy to identify how you want to split something (equally, stated percentage or dollar amount) and even tracks purchases in different currencies. It also helps neutralize those fears that can arise in group travel, “I paid for coffee yesterday…”

As I've gotten older, I've realized that the best trips aren't necessarily the most luxurious or the most exotic. They're the ones you intentionally make room for—on your calendar, in your budget, and in your life.

Three years ago, Greece was just an idea discussed over a glass of wine in Alexandria. This month, it's finally happening. And while I'm looking forward to the blue water, the seaside tavernas, and spending time with friends, there's something rewarding about knowing that a little planning, patience, and saving helped make it all possible.

Yamas!

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Lauren O’Brien, CFP®, RICP®, CPA

Lauren joined an XML legacy firm in 2013, creating The O’Brien Team with her father until he happily retired five years later. She specializes in retirement planning, retirement income generation, wealth transfer planning, and investment management. She maintains the credentials of a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™ professional and Retired Income Certified Professional®. She demonstrated her local leadership in the field with service on the Financial Planning & Wealth Management advisory board at George Mason University.

Prior to embarking into wealth management, Lauren worked in client service as a CPA after graduating Summa Cum Laude from the University of Notre Dame. Her motto is “life is not a dress rehearsal,” and that outlook helped motivate her to move to London in 2008, where she thrived in a global setting.

Returning to the U.S. after London, Lauren is a proud resident of Old Town. She immediately became engaged in the local community, becoming active with The Campagna Center and most recently joining the Board for the Alexandria Seaport Foundation. Making further investments in her community, she served on the Budget & Fiscal Affairs Advisory Committee through early 2026 and founded Alexandria’s first community-focused TEDx program that held conferences in both 2019 and 2021. While previously serving on the Board of Directors for the Alexandria Chamber of Commerce, she chaired its Professional Women’s Network, under which she launched its now-annual Women’s Leadership Forum.

An avid traveler, Lauren has visited all continents except Antarctica and recently completed her quest to visit all 50 states! She loves to cook, attend wine tastings, and can frequently be found at events around Alexandria.

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