Because I’ve Been Through Thinning Hair in My 40s (and Actually Found What Works)
I didn’t expect it—but it happened. In my 40s, I started noticing more hair in the shower, less volume at my crown, and noticeable thinning around my hairline and part. I couldn’t ignore it. As a salon owner in Old Town Alexandria, I’ve seen this happen to so many clients. But when it happened to me, it felt personal.
If you’re navigating thinning, shedding, or just not feeling at home in your hair right now—I see you. And I want to share what’s worked for me, and what we now offer at deZEN here in Alexandria to support you through it too.
Start With Ritual, Not Panic
When I first noticed the changes, I almost jumped straight into panic-mode treatments. But I paused—and remembered what I always tell my clients: your scalp is skin, and it needs support, not stress.
Because I’m deep in the beauty business, I have access to all the things. I tried what felt like a thousand different products, but ultimately landed on a few that actually worked, and I found a hair growth routine that felt right for me.
And now, after a full year of staying consistent, I can say with confidence that this routine has completely changed my hair. My strands are fuller, my scalp is healthier, and I have more length and density than I’ve had in years. Every product plays a role—they support each other, and together, they’ve supported me through this entire journey.
The Snow Fox Serum That Started It All
I began with the Snow Fox Tetrapeptide & Ginseng Hair & Scalp Serum. It’s lightweight, cooling, and honestly feels like a moment of calm every time I use it. Formulated with red ginseng, tetrapeptides, and fermented botanicals, it nourishes the scalp, soothes inflammation, and creates the kind of healthy foundation your hair wants to grow from.
The Brush That Changed the Game
Right alongside that, I brought in the Snow Fox Gua‑Sha Detangling Brush. This brush isn’t just pretty, it’s brilliant. With 150 ultra-fine, gold-plated gua‑sha needles, it stimulates blood flow without pulling or damaging fragile strands. The airflow design keeps pressure gentle while helping distribute the serum exactly where it needs to go.
I use it every morning after applying the Snow Fox serum—and again at night as part of my wind-down. It reminds me to slow down and care for myself from root to soul.
Once my scalp felt more balanced, I added Zenagen Revolve to the mix, a plant-powered shampoo and conditioner system that targets DHT buildup, one of the biggest contributors to hormonal hair thinning.
I use the shampoo 2–3 times a week, letting it sit for five minutes to really work. But what’s made the biggest long-term difference? The Zenagen Scalp Serum.
I started applying it at night to my hairline, part, and any areas that felt extra vulnerable. It absorbs beautifully—no residue, no fuss—and within a few months, I could see the difference. Now, a year later, my scalp feels stronger, less reactive, and my hair is denser, shinier, and healthier.
My Real-Life Hair Recovery Routine
If you’re wondering where to start, here’s the rhythm I’ve created for myself:
Cleanse Smart. Use Zenagen Revolve Shampoo 2–3x per week. I usually pre-wash with one of the other shampoos I rotate through, then massage Zenagen into my scalp and let it sit. While that’s working, I’ll treat my ends with a deep conditioner.
Nourish Daily. After towel drying, I mist the Snow Fox Tetrapeptide & Ginseng Serum directly onto my scalp to hydrate, calm, and prep it for regrowth.
Stimulate Gently. I use the Snow Fox Gua‑Sha Brush to distribute the serum and gently massage the scalp. It’s one of my favorite grounding rituals—especially in the quiet of the morning or evening.
Targeted Regrowth. Every night, I apply the Zenagen Scalp Serum to my temples, hairline, and crown. I treat it like skincare: consistent, kind, and essential.
This Isn’t Just About Hair. It’s About Wholeness.
This journey has taught me so much about patience, nourishment, and tuning into what my body needs. Hair changes in our 40s aren’t something to hide—they’re something to honor and support.
We carry every product I mentioned in this article right here at Salon deZEN in Old Town Alexandria. If you’re ready to feel like yourself again—or maybe even better than before—come see us. We’ll listen, we’ll guide, and we’ll help you build a ritual that works for you.
Because your hair deserves grace. And so do you.
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