Planners: Your Secret Weapon Against Life's Beautiful Chaos

Let's face it—life in the DMV can feel like juggling flaming torches while riding a unicycle on a tightrope. And the pressure! Don’t get me started. Between work deadlines, family obligations, social commitments, and the ever-present question of "Wait, what was I doing?", staying organized is a constant challenge. Particularly for someone who is (self)diagnosed with ADHD like me. (I’m on a waiting list to get tested by a real doctor rather than WebMD I promise). What is one to do you ask?  Enter the trusty planner: your new best friend and potential sanity-saver.

Why Planners Are Game-Changers

Planners are far more than glorified calendars. Trust me. They're comprehensive management systems that help develop crucial organizational skills. For anyone feeling overwhelmed by daily demands, planners provide structure and clarity. They reduce that nagging anxiety that comes from wondering if you're forgetting something important (spoiler alert: you probably are, but now you'll remember it).

Using a planner transforms reactive living into proactive planning. Instead of constantly putting out fires, you can see what's coming and prepare accordingly. And God help me I love marking things off my to-do list. I do a tiny victory lap every time.

How to Master the Art of Planning

It’s not hard but here’s the secret to planner success – CONSISTENCY. Finding your personal rhythm. Write down everything: appointments, deadlines, grocery runs, etc. I even write down emails and calls that I don’t want to forget about. Include time estimates for tasks because we're all terrible at guessing how long things actually take (looking at you, "quick" grocery store run that somehow consumes two hours but I thought it would take 30 minutes). A key issue for those with ADHD.

Start with a brain dump session where you write down absolutely everything swirling around in your head. This mental decluttering is surprisingly therapeutic and ensures nothing gets forgotten. Then, prioritize. Ruthlessly. Not everything is actually urgent, despite what your anxiety might be screaming at you.

Try weekly planning sessions where you review upcoming commitments and map out your week. This prevents the dreaded double-booking (I’m a master at this!) and helps you spot potential stress points before overwhelm sets in. 

Next comes the fun and creative part. Color-coding different life areas—work, friends, family, and please don’t forget your personal needs—creates quick visual references. Some of our Penny Post planning enthusiasts swear by the "time blocking" method, where you assign specific time slots to different activities. This helps prevent the dreaded scenario where you realize it's 3pm and you haven't eaten lunch because you were "just going to finish one more thing."

Most importantly, don't forget to schedule buffer time between activities. Life has a funny way of throwing curveballs, and that 15-minute cushion can mean the difference between arriving gracefully and sprinting through the door like your hair is on fire. 

Also, be kind to yourself when you don't stick to the plan perfectly. Planners are tools to help you, not rigid masters to serve.

Finding Your Perfect Planning Partner

Here it is… The best planner is one you'll actually use. Finding the right planner can take trial and error.  First consider how you like to operate. Do you thrive with details like a tactical genius, or do you prefer space for creativity and self-expression.

Consider your lifestyle and preferences. Digital planners work wonderfully for tech-lovers who always have their devices handy, but physical planners offer that satisfying tactile experience and eliminate the temptation of "just checking one quick email" that turns into an hour-long internet rabbit hole.

On the practical side, look for planners with adequate writing space, durable construction to survive your daily adventures, and layouts that match your planning style. Features like monthly overviews, goal-setting sections, and reference pages add extra value to your organizational arsenal.

Planners represent a small investment that pays enormous dividends in reduced stress, improved productivity, and better work-life balance. At Penny Post, we have a plethora of planners from which you can choose.  Plus, all the accoutrements to make using one more fun and less of another chore that you have to plan for.

Believe it or not, the academic school year is just weeks away.  If you are someone who needs a 17-month planner, then we have ‘em just in time for back to school!


SEE ALSO: 5 Simple Tips for Journaling to Boost Your Mental Health

Amy Rutherford

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Owner Amy Rutherford started Red Barn because she wanted to deliver a service — to provide both old and new in one place. No longer will busy shoppers be limited to reproductions or forced to shop multiple flea markets for the look or gifts they want. The trick in blending old and new, vintage and modern, classic and quirky, is balance. And Amy’s knack for mixing rustic antiques with urban chic has created a look that is both fresh and familiar.

Located in the heart of Old Town Alexandria, Virginia, Penny Post is an independent boutique specializing in custom stationery and wedding invitations. Inspired by the art of personal correspondence, the power of handwritten notes, and the smell of freshly printed stationery, we surround ourselves with quirky, hilarious, and classically beautiful things to make life a little brighter.

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